25 Ways to Have Him Stay in Love Part II




Nov 16, 09:51 pm

8. Be spontaneous.
     Do things on the spur of the moment. Keep life lively, whether that means a little impromptu body warmth or a quick change of plans to try out a trendy new café or restaurant. At times men like to stick to the game plan, but the unexpected can be exciting and sexy.

9. Empathize with him.
     Most men like to seek the kind of unconditional and automatic love and empathy that they used to be able to count on from their mothers or big sisters. You can find a way into his heart by listening to his problems, trying to identify with them and offering him the soft shoulder of enduring, comforting femininity.

10. Have your own life.
     Your job, interests and friends can attract him as much as who you are inside and out. But when he sees the level of independence that you’ve attained and the quality of the people in your sphere of influence, he may just be itching to become one of them.

11. Wear what he likes.
     Maybe that tube dress isn’t your style or those faded jeans he likes or the unisex look he has a yearn for don’t quite have the appeal that they used to for you. Either make the effort to please him occasionally or spice up his favorite things to see you in by wearing them in creative ways for him in privacy.

12. Show him your abilities.
     There’s nothing like excellence and competence to advertise your value. Admiration and respect for personal and professional talents coalesce into one of the generally unspoken central male credos. And it translates across gender lines, too. Being good to him can often mean being good at being you.

13. Be one of the guys.
     Hang out, mess around. Let him know that you are game for all of the tomfoolery that he can engage in with his pals. If you can go to the golf course or the bar as readily and as easily as any Tom, Dick or Harry, he may begin preferring you to any of them because you also have all of those feminine qualities the guys lack.

14. Play the tomboy. Sometimes.
     He can fall in lust with your batting stance, but then admire you if you can hit to the opposite field or bring the hoop ball down the court and cut to your left. Athletic women also often understand the competitive edge which drives many men to succeed.

15. Be adventurous.
     Be willing to do things that you normally wouldn’t, whether that occurs in the course of everyday life, during extraordinary circumstances or in the bedroom. Being brave and bold and ready to figuratively rock ‘n roll can make you a uniquely attractive partner.

16. Show him your sweetness.
     Don’t hold back on your inner or outer beauty. Put your emotional and physical assets in his lap and feel how receptive and grateful he is to have you that close. He can’t help but absorb the warmth and glory of what you have to offer.

17. Make yourself available.
     Make him a priority in your life. Let him know you value him as much as you want him to value you.

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