"Let's face it-if a man decides to enjoy an isolated fling, there's no way to stop him. On the other hand, a man immersed in pattern of cheating or an extended liason with another woman will leave clues about his infidelities. From your standpoint, it's important to know about serious or regular cheating so you can consider your options and be prepared to execute them"

16. He slips and alludes to movies you never saw with him.

17. He starts being more possessive toward his wallet, pocket calendar or notebook.

18. He starts talking about getting together with old friends he hasn't seen in years.

19. You find bobbie pins, compacts, stockings, earrings or other feminine objects in his car.

20. He starts taking a renewed interest in his appearance.

21. He starts shopping for new clothes.

22. He starts keeping an overnight bag in his car or office, ostensibly for a workout or a game of tennis.

23. He orders dishes he never ordered before.

24. He doesn't look at other women as much as he used to.

25. He starts working late and on holidays and weekends.

26. He comes home more often with alcohol on his breath.

27. He expresses opinions on subjects he never used to take an interest in.

28. He takes a new interest in your anticipated schedule.

29. He encourages you to go alone to visit your parents or friends.

30. He buys you gifts that show a new level of taste or insight.

31. He makes a point of keeping his car free of paraphernelia belonging to you or the kids.

32. He starts attending extended seminars or conventions.

33. He starts using new words and phrases.

34. He becomes irritated or angry when you do something nice for him.

35. At odd hours he starts remembering things he forgot to do at the office.

36. You get a call from a friend he's supposed to be spending time with.

37. He suggests you open separate checking accounts.

38. He storms out of the house after picking arguments over trivial things.

39. How does a girl get your attention?

40. He calls you unexpectedly while he's supposed to be at the office.
If he's using the office as an alibi, he wants to make sure you don't call there.

41. His hair is wet when he gets home at night.

42. He starts smelling as though he's freshly showered when he gets home.

43. He initiates sexual positions you haven't tried since your earliest days together.

44. You see a new number appearing frequently on your phone bill.

45. He avoids having you call his cellphone.
He may have forgotten to turn it off while he's driving with her.

46. He doesn't answer the cellphone even though he has it on standby.

47. You notice that he is wearing cufflinks, ties or other accessories you don't remember buying him.

48. He often forgets to wear his wedding band.

49. He takes the dog for much longer walks than he used to.

50. He avoids taking you to certain restaurants or bars for no good reason.