Things You Can Forgive Him For



Korean Drama Couple Lee Min-ho and Park Min-yeong
Dec 27, 03:46 pm

     Let’s face it. We’re not perfect. So why do we expect an increasingly amount of perfection from our guys? How many times have you unwittingly made eyes with that cute guy at the bar or ignored your man’s phone call? If roles were reversed, he would be six feet under. So assuming you’ve picked a guy that knows the difference between right and wrong, for the sake of fairness (and sanity) pick your battles wisely. Not only will he appreciate your confidence and independence, but it will encourage him to be better behaved, more open and more willing to be the man you want him to be. Here are a few you should let pass every once in a while:

Looking at Another Woman

     It’s probably one of the hardest things for us to deal with because we want to know that without a shadow of a doubt that we are the center of his universe. Most of the time when a guy has a momentary “lapse in judgment” it’s because he’s not using his judgment at all. It’s the male instinct kicking in. Ever wonder why he’s looked at girls that you don’t find to be particularly attractive? It’s just part of his DNA to size up a woman’s figure, whether or not they rank a 10 in your book, or even his.
     There’s a fine line between a momentary lapse and outright disrespect. If he turns his head to follow a woman while you’re engaged in conversation with him, you better question his judgment. If you accidentally catch him taking a quick glance, blame his hormones. The truth is he isn’t wishing he was with her, or even comparing her to you. In fact, the thought never crosses his mind. His eyes wander because he’s a man.

Watching Dirty Movies

     There isn’t anything morally wrong with watching pornography. Nearly all men have viewed or watched porn during their lifetimes. In adolescent years men turn to porn as a kind of sex training before the real deal and by the time young adulthood rolls around, it becomes a means for them to satisfy a need that can’t be met.
     There is, however, a line between acceptable and inappropriate. If your man can’t go a day without watching porn, spends hours in front of his computer browsing dirty sites, or chooses porn over sex with you, then you may want to see a counselor. If he just considers it a replacement for when you aren’t around, then let it go. Forget about whether he’s comparing you to them or wishing you were one of them. He isn’t.

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